Today at Momscape.com: Are you an Earth Mother or a Creative Rainbow Mother? Find out.
Coupons | Product Reviews | Contests | Articles | Blog | Search | Subscribe
Family Fun | Parenting Tips | Romance | Health & Fitness | Organic Living | Weight Loss | WAHMs
Welcome Momscapers!
Momscape.com is an award winning online magazine delivering
uplifting personal essays
from real parents - plus
practical guidance on parenting,
family fun,
romance,
travel,
health & fitness,
weight loss,
and more.
We invite you to share your
MamaWisdom and to help us
spotlight
products that make your life as a mom easier or better while you
enjoy our money-saving
online coupons and
family travel
discounts.
We want to help you enjoy the
simple (and fine) things life has to offer.
Subscribe to Momscape >
or
Get Our Daily Coupon Updates by Email
Bookmark and share Momscape with your friends:
Online Coupons
Today's
Favorite Coupons
All Online
Coupons by Store
All Online Coupons by
Category
Printable
Grocery Coupons
Product Reviews
Momscape's
Favorite Things (Blog)
Top-Rated
Mom Product Reviews
Family Fun
Activities & Crafts
Family Travel
Deals
Free Scrapbooking Ideas
Parenting Articles
Baby Tips
Toddler Tips
All Parenting Articles
Inspiration/Essays
Relationships
Marriage
Romance
Friendships
Health
and Fitness
Fitness Tips
Natural Living
Nurturing Your Spirit
Weight Loss
Professional
Family Manager Tips
Home-Based Business
Community
MamaWisdom Forums
About Momscape
Subscribe
Site Map
Links
Link to Us
Privacy Policy
Terms of Service
About us
Contact Us
Making Your Home a Refuge
by Nancy Twigg
Is your home a refuge for your family? Is it a peaceful place that
welcomes each family member at the end of the work or school day? Is
your home inviting to friends, making them want to come in, relax, and
visit for a while?
If you think homes like this are only found in decorating magazines or
wealthy neighborhoods, you're wrong. It doesn't matter if you rent or
own, or whether your house is large or small. There are simple things
you can do to make your home more "homey" for your family. With a little
creativity, any home can be a refuge for its inhabitants.
Fresh flowers add beauty, color and fragrance to your surroundings. Pick
some wild flowers or consider growing your own this spring.
Houseplants are not only decorative but they also put oxygen into the
air. Experts say they also improve the air quality by removing
pollutants.
Don't underestimate the calming effects of soothing music on the whole
family. Start a collection of pleasant music that can be played softly
to lift your spirits and calm frazzled nerves.
Decorate your house with things that represent happiness and good
memories: family pictures, special Bible verses, or awards that family
members have received.
These are constant reminders of what's most important to the family.
Recognize the relaxing effects of candles. Lit candles promote
relaxation and sometimes even romance for Mom and Dad! (Be careful about
burning candles if you have small children.)
Find a special spot in the house that you can call your very own. Use
this place to read, pray, meditate - whatever brings you peace.
Encourage other family members to have their own special spots too.
Set aside 15-30 minutes of "quiet time" each morning or evening to
either prepare yourself for the day or unwind and reflect. Remember that
your mood can affect the whole family.
Institute a ritual to calm that crazy half-hour after you and your
spouse first get home from work. Sip a favorite beverage with the kids,
change into your most comfortable clothes, or sit down and chat with the
family before starting dinner.
Keep a secret stash of "comfort foods" on hand. For many people,
flavored coffees, herbal tea or chocolate does the trick. If you are
calm, your calmness will rub off on other family members.
Whenever possible, double recipes and freeze the leftovers. Knowing that
a delicious meal is only minutes away makes coming home more enjoyable
for everyone, especially the designated family cook.
Make it your goal to have at least one neat room in your house at all
times -- preferably the one family members see first when they come in
the door.
Use the tablecloth and nice china at least one night a week "just
because." Why save those things only for special occasions? Another day
of life is special occasion enough.
About the Author:
Nancy Twigg is the editor of Counting the Cost, an e-zine devoted to
everyday abundant living at its best. Topics include experiencing life
more joyfully, using our time and money wisely, building stronger family
relationships, and spiritual enrichment. To subscribe, send a blank
e-mail message to:
countingthecost-subscribe@topica.com or visit Nancy online at
www.countingthecost.com
and subscribe there.
Subscribe to Momscape >
or
Get Our Daily Coupon Updates by Email
Moms are Raving About
> Tae Bo Kicks Billy Blanks Workout for Kids
> Collectopia Wacktivity and A Friendship Scraptacular
> Micro Spy Kit X2 Toy
> Bugaboo Chameleon Stroller
> Burt's Bees Baby Bee Skin reme
> Perego Primo Viaggio Infant Car Seat
> Ina May's Guide to Childbirth, by Ina May Gaskins
> Rocket Spanish
> NordicTrack 740 Stepper
> More Product Reviews