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Becoming his Geisha Girl
by Jess Bali,
YouMarriedHim.com
Recently I was watching a movie that had these delicately exotic women
in it. The were the height of mystery and elegance and the men around
them adored them. Trying to learn more about this style of enchantment I
began my search on what a geisha girl was made of.
An ancient art that has been rivaled by many, the geisha girl is one who
allows men to feel as though they are royalty. They were taught within
extremely strict guidelines how to make him feel as though he were the
only one in the room. They learned to become masters of seductive
traits. How to groom themselves with perfection, be attentive, smart,
humorous and elegant. They took lessons in music, story telling, playing
games and, most importantly, secrecy for that which was said while in
their presence. They could allow the men who came to them the devotion
of time, attention and respect that they deserved.
Surprisingly enough, geishas, though thought to be high paid servants or
even prostitutes, offer no services other than what the person who has
paid for their time requests. Most often, sex was not a factor. Men
simply wanted to have the company of someone who would allow them to
feel important and valuable.
So how can you incorporate the ancient practice of a geisha into your
life? With some practice, patience and a little planning even the most
dull relationship can get a healthy boost from this. Here are some great
ideas to get you started:
Become the geisha girl - first and foremost you need to ensure that your
attitude is good. Feel the power within yourself to be someone who can
deliver sensuality to your partner. Begin by bathing in a hot bath
lightly scented with jasmine or lavender. Dress in a short wrap or
housecoat that is pretty and feminine. Slip on some pretty sandals or
slippers.
Take special attention to your makeup. Red lipstick is best. You want to
accentuate the soft kissable heart that your mouth forms. If you have
longer hair, pull it up off of your neck and tie it into a bun or
another seductive style. Place perfume on a few select spots, nape
of neck, between the breasts, behind your ears and on wrists, with a
subtle and elegant perfume.
Find a spot in your home, most likely the living room, where there is
adequate floor space and softer lighting. Place candles around the room
where you want hints of light and play instrumental music softly in the
background. Place two pillows on the floor on either side of a coffee
table or something of similar height. Serve him a meal that is light and
is full of flavor.
Once you are finished your meal sit down and enjoy an after dinner drink
with him. Don't go excessive, you just want something that will further
the relaxation for both of you. Now that you have both enjoyed your
moments turn to him and become the person that you are aiming for.
With a bottle of massage lotion that has a nice exotic scent, such as
lavender, vanilla or cocoa butter, ask him if he would like a massage.
Remember, the most important thing is visual stimulation. Let him know
that you are honored to be in his company. Look at him like only you
would, with love, adoration and appreciativeness. Starting at his
shoulders and neck, massage seductively down in a circular motion being
careful to be gentle and light with your touch.
Ask him if he would like to hear an erotic tale while performing his
massage. Within this erotic tale play out your fantasies with your
characters and tell him what your deepest desires are. This is one of
the key points that will lead to him to feeling like the master of his
domain.
Once your story is finished you will probably both be in the mood for
some sultry passion between the sheets. Kiss him gently and, while
holding his hand and glancing at him appreciatively, lead him to the
bedroom. Let him know that you have one more thing to make his night
complete.
With lighted candles placed around the bedroom to offer enough light for
him to see you, slip out of the robe that you are wearing and let the
passion ignite!
With those tips there isn't a way under heaven that he can't feel
completely adored and desired. To think of how easy it is makes me
wonder why this can't be something that isn't adapted into our own lives
on a regular basis.
Just think back to the times when you walked hand in hand and thought of
nothing but how the other felt. When you start putting the other person
before yourself, you can see results.
Author Bio:
Jessica Bali and her husband reside in Alberta Canada where they raise
their 4-year-old daughter. Together, they have learned that marriage is
probably one of the toughest challenges in life, but the most rewarding.
She is the editor of
YouMarriedHim.com, a community that fortifies marriages and offers
great support for when you need it the most. For more information or to
visit the site please go to
http://www.youmarriedhim.com
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