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The Simplicity of Simplifying
They say your home is a reflection of you…of what's really going on
inside. If that's the case, I'm a mess from the '70s in bad need of a
facelift.
I believe in the power of a soulful home. A home that tells a story. A
home in which each item is placed therein with a conscious decision
regarding its loveliness.
But, in truth, home décor must not be anywhere near the top of my
priority list because it's been five years and I'm still walking across
my cherry red checkered carpet, still cooking on my avocado stove, still
staring at my speckled ceiling tiles reminiscent of grade school.
Now our home, while a touch outdated, doesn't lack soul. With two small
children (and one on the way), two self-employed adults and their
offices, the family dog, and whatever neighborhood animals are visiting,
we have enough soul for a home three times this size. And that's what
really bothers some friends and family.
Just about everyone tells us we need more space. They tell us this all
the time. Some of them seem very concerned. And so my husband (who makes
his living building very large homes for people) has been sitting at his
drafting table trying to figure out how best to increase our living
space.
He likes to sit in his still, quiet corner of the attic-turned-office
after the rest of the house is dark. He likes to draw different designs,
and he has come up with some gems. But there's always a problem. They
all require cutting down one of the towering Engelman Spruce on the side
of our home.
Now, I know this may sound strange, but with the wildfires ripping
through Colorado, it has crossed my mind that if my home and land burned
I would miss my trees more than my house. Houses can be rebuilt. Trees
like these come from God.
So one night, not so long ago, we were sitting around trying to decide
whether the addition would go on the side or around the back. How it
would affect the storybook-cottage look of the front of our home. How it
would obstruct our views from various windows.
And Ty made the controversial declaration that maybe we shouldn't do
anything at all. Maybe we should keep the soul contained just as it is:
as a tight embrace.
I nearly fell over myself with relief as I avowed that, beyond carpet
and curtains, I don't want to change this house at all. Maybe, as our
children are young, they'll enjoy falling asleep to the sound of their
parents' laughter spilling in from the next room. Maybe they'll enjoy
always knowing in an instant who's home and who's not.
Maybe they'll enjoy the Thoughtful Spot they'll create among the
still-standing Engelman Spruce outside. Maybe a small home isn't a
sacrifice. Maybe it's a blessing.
So there isn't going to be a second mortgage. Just a simple, soulful
home for a family that aspires to be the same.
Creating a simpler life can be surprisingly simple. It starts with
questioning those things we've taken as truths for so long. That a large
home is better than a small home. That more work is better than good
work. That more stuff is better than less stuff.
An exile from home, splendor dazzles in vain
O, give me my lowly thatched cottage again!
The birds singing gaily that came at my call--
Give me them,--and the peace of mind dearer than all!
--John Howard Payne, "Home Sweet Home,"
from the Opera of Clari, the Maid of Milan
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